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Self-help Quotes


"Whatever you lay your hands on, self-esteem is visible."


"12 Things To Ditch For - A Great Day, Blame, Guilt, Worry, Regret, Resentment, Entitlement, Self-pity, Laziness, Negative attitude, Fear of embarrassment, Urge to one-up others, Your comfort zone."


"The ability to make yourself do what needs to be done at the appropriate time and in the appropriate manner " irrespective of your feelings " marks the true test of self-discipline."


"It's OKAY to be scared. Being scared means you're about to do something really, really brave."


"Use your good common sense. Is anger useful? If you get angry at someone, the result is good neither for you nor for the other person. Nothing helpful comes of it. In the end, anger does not harm others; it hurts yourself."


"Gratitude is more of a compliment to yourself than someone else."


"Gone are the days when 19-inch biceps would once command respect. A Jedi doesn't walk around with their arms flexed and with a thousand yard stare in their eyes. They walk with a good posture, their head held high and with a serious, yet friendly, look on their face."


"Jedi are conversationalists and negotiators, bringing people together and solving problems. Jedi listen and feel to what others are saying."


"The battle between your current state and your desired state cannot be won without a powerful weapon called CHOICE. Your choice determines you."


"When you do anything from a clear judgment that it ought to be done, never shrink from being seen to do it, even though the world should misunderstand it; for if you are not acting rightly, shun the action itself; if you are, why fear those who wrongly censure you?"


"The first place where self-esteem begins its journey is within us."


"Maybe you are in the Abyss of Emotional Bankruptcy looking for a way out, looking for the next rung in the ladder on your climb to the Peak of Happiness, or you may even be at the Peak of Happiness already, looking for a way to stay there. Wherever you are in life, this book is designed to give you the tools necessary to help you achieve your goals."


"Don't grieve when people fail to recognize your ability. Grieve for your lack of ability instead."


"You made me confess the fears that I have. But I will tell you also what I do not fear. I do not fear to be alone or to be spurned for another or to leave whatever I have to leave. And I am not afraid to make a mistake, even a great mistake, a lifelong mistake and perhaps as long as eternity too."


"And perhaps it was also the case that, for all a lifetime's internal struggling, you were finally no more than what others saw you as. That was your nature, whether you liked it or not."


"Avoid teams at all cost. Keep your circle small. Never join a group that has a name."


"There is no model, no actress, no Miss America contender that can outshine a happy, confident, secure woman."


"Peak Performance is not a destination but a journey!"


"Renew your mind by flooding it with inspiring, empowering, educational and edifying thoughts and words."


"Is a self help or personal development book ruining your life?"


"There are two things essential if you want to enhance your Jedi self-confidence: 1/ belief that it is possible 2/ that self-help is the best help."


"The good thing about a self-help book is that if you misunderstand something then it won't mock you."


"To rise above the conflicting desires of others, there must be no conflict about your own."



"Best to introduce yourself to patience now, so that it might find you when you call upon it later."


"I'm creating a self help show called Self Talk. I'll insult myself for an hour then open phone lines to a fitness coach & my mother-in-law."


"But before I can live with other folks I've got to live with myself."


"If you like who you are then losing yourself isn't a choice! But if you don't like yourself, get lost."


"You don't have to be good at something to be liked."


"Sometimes all it takes to change your life is to change your routine."
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