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Self-help Quotes


"Self-discovery is a journey of questioning yourself."


"You must learn not to rely so heavily on others. Only then will help come when you truly need it."


"When you focus on being the best person you can be, you draw the best possible life, love, and opportunities to you."


"He who can have patience can have what he will."


"God helps them that helps themselves."


"If you aspire to be a sparrow you will never be an eagle!"


"Never forget that when it comes to humans, you are your best helping hand or even your only help. So this moment calls for you to stop waiting on people and start persistently helping yourself."


"Mindset Matters: Cut away the nonsense and cultivate an environment conducive to your personal well-being. Forgive yourself and others. Have the courage to move on. The battle is long... and in the end, it's only with yourself."


"Your life depends entirely on your reactions to the accountability that you are faced with."


"Once you feel nice about yourself, you have planted the first seed to develop self-confidence."


"Your self-confidence is simply the part of your brain that tells you whether or not you should try something different or new or believe in yourself, and just as a Jedi truly believes that it is within their power to control their thoughts and stay in the Light, so can you."


"When we're not true to our thoughts and not true to the feelings we have deep inside, we find ourselves unhappy. Be courageous enough to align your life with your feelings, desires, and sense of purpose."


"Gone are the days when 19-inch biceps would once command respect. A Jedi doesn't walk around with their arms flexed and with a thousand yard stare in their eyes. They walk with a good posture, their head held high and with a serious, yet friendly, look on their face."


"The key to investing in yourself is being able to see your potential, not just your actual value. Being able to visualize your value demonstrates that you are already picking up the skills of a 3D thinker."


"Jedi are always assessing situations, actions and possibilities. Jedi don't just think outside of the box with the help from the Force, they also adapt to situations outside of the box!"


"Effective coaching builds awareness and removes the excuses. Coaching will help you replace those excuses and limiting beliefs with empowering dreams, and boost your self-confidence. Coaching can help you identify your values, discover your "why, set goals, increase your self-esteem, and find a balance in life and business."


"Identify and replace any limiting deep-rooted beliefs that are like a solid mental prison, including thoughts like, 'I'm not worthy,' 'I can't do this,' 'I'm too old to start,' 'I don't have the qualification or skills to become a better person,' 'I'm always the unlucky one,' 'I have nothing to give/say or contribute'."


"Whatever you lay your hands on, self-esteem is visible."


"When you are drowned by your sorry state, and you feel as if you are carried away from the road that leads to your desires, you should know that you are the one responsible for being led away from the right path."


"Flexibility is the greatest strength."


"I can't. It's not possible. I'm not good enough ... - These are lies the demons of your past use to scare away the possibilities of the present."


"A good self-esteem level is mostly dependant on how we value ourselves without any bias."


"I finally stopped seeking in others everything I could only find in myself."


"When you mark where your self-doubt is, then you can begin to conquer it."


"If you check your personal blind spots, you can be able to guard against focusing on what you cannot do, but reduce the areas of weakness by taking their space with more of your strengths."


"Self-belief, also called self-efficacy, is the kind of feeling you have when you have, like a Jedi, mastered a particular kind of skill and with its help have been able to achieve your set goals."


"Who we are is who we ACTUALLY are. It's never who we create in order for people to see. You might really hate who you actually are, so then you create a sub-genus type of yourself for other people to see. But that never changes who you are. The sub-genus type won't change your genus. The only way we change who we are is by looking at ourselves in the mirror long enough to make us vomit over our disgusting waywardness and long enough to fall in love with our strengths. But you can't just fall in love with your strengths. You also need to vomit over your hypocrisies and all of your other bullshit. And you can't just vomit, either. You also have to clean it up and embrace yourself afterwards. This is how you change your genus."


"Circumstances, knowledge or birth do not determine the realisation of your desires. It is only you who are blocking the achievement of your dreams and goals."


"Jedi act with confidence, move with confidence, and breathe with confidence. Jedi possess a confident calmness in their looks, attitude andbehaviour."


"Jedi are conversationalists and negotiators, bringing people together and solving problems. Jedi listen and feel to what others are saying."


"Throughout my life, I have been blessed with a positive and resilient attitude. I grew up with an alcoholic father and he tested my disposition in more ways than you might imagine. Knowing I couldn't depend on him for positive reinforcement, I clung to my positive attitude like a life preserver to give me the strength for positivity and self-reliance. Otherwise, I would have sunk into the depths of low self-esteem and worthlessness. A positive attitude was my saving grace and it became a habit by choice, day-in and day-out."


"The major purpose of defining and understanding yourself is to be able to come up with an objective strategy to map your success."


"The ability to make yourself do what needs to be done at the appropriate time and in the appropriate manner " irrespective of your feelings " marks the true test of self-discipline."


"The good thing about a self-help book is that if you misunderstand something then it won't mock you."


"Certain situations need a Jedi-like approach. One of these is when you are in a strange environment, usually where you feel unsure of yourself. You would be surprised how, if you walk with confidence and meaning, people will see this as a mark of confidence, yet you are perhaps shaking inside but outwardly you have the gait of a confident Jedi Knight."


"How often do the poor daydream of a better life? Plenty, no doubt, and where does it get them? It is the poor who begin with a daydream and realize at some point that they have to get up, roll their sleeves, and start doing something about those day dreams who succeed. And there are many who have."


"If you like who you are then losing yourself isn't a choice! But if you don't like yourself, get lost."


"You don't have to be good at something to be liked."


"Renew your mind by flooding it with inspiring, empowering, educational and edifying thoughts and words."


"Sometimes all it takes to change your life is to change your routine."


"There are two things essential if you want to enhance your Jedi self-confidence: 1/ belief that it is possible 2/ that self-help is the best help."


"12 Things To Ditch For - A Great Day, Blame, Guilt, Worry, Regret, Resentment, Entitlement, Self-pity, Laziness, Negative attitude, Fear of embarrassment, Urge to one-up others, Your comfort zone."


"To rise above the conflicting desires of others, there must be no conflict about your own."
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