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"We are afraid that Heaven is a bribe, and that if we make it our goal we shall no longer be disinterested. It is not so. Heaven offers nothing that the mercenary soul can desire. It is safe to tell the pure in heart that they shall see God, for only the pure in heart want to. There are rewards that do not sully motives. A man's love for a woman is not mercenary because he wants to marry her, nor his love for poetry mercenary because he wants to read it, nor his love of exercise less disinterested because he wants to run and leap and walk. Love, by definition, seeks to enjoy its object."

"The only remedy against hunger is reasonable birth control."


"You cannot connect with anyone except through reality."


"God rules through light."

"The modern habit of doing ceremonial things unceremoniously is no proof of humility; rather it proves the offender's inability to forget himself in the rite, and his readiness to spoil for every one else the proper pleasure of ritual."

"Most people live lives that are full of mysteries, lives whose ultimate purpose we may never really understand. But for the sake of serenity, we must believe in life's nobleness."

"Toni Morrison said, "The function of freedom is to free someone else," and if you are no longer wracked or in bondage to a person or a way of life, tell your story. Risk freeing someone else. Not everyone will be glad that you did. Members of your family and other critics may wish you had kept your secrets. Oh, well, what are you going to do? Get it all down. Let it pour out of you and onto the page. Write an incredibly shitty, self-indulgent, whiny, mewling first draft. Then take out as many of the excesses as you can."


"Excitement is the more practical synonym for happiness, and it is precisely what you should strive to chase. It is the cure-all."

"Life only plants the seeds. It's up to us to help them grow."


"For a thinking man, the main thing is to understand who he is within."

"But for now, the future, like the past, means nothing. For now, there is only a homestead built of trash and scraps, at the edge of a broken city, just beyond a towering city dump; and our arrival-hungry, and half-frozen, to a place of food and water and walls that keep out the brutal winds. This, for us, is heaven."

"I shall not waste any of our brief time together flattering your ego, as others have done before, with all this nonsense about skills and talents that do not help, or worse, that you do not actually possess."


"Everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other."

"I wrote the original Mike Hammer as a comic, Mike Danger."


"I do know that I don't want to wake him.We were up very late last night."

"And for that one moment of freedom you have to listen to all that love crap... it drive me nuts sometimes... I want to kick them out immediately... I do now and then. But that doesn't keep them away. They like it, in fact. The less you notice them the more they chase after you. There's something perverse about women... they're all masochists at heart."

"If you do not respect your own wishes, no one else will. You will simply attract people who disrespect you as much as you do."

"Justification of failure is the most powerful mechanism adopted by the mind to avoid the reflection of Self Failure."

"Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behavior decides who stays in your life."

"When solving problems, dig at the roots instead of just hacking at the leaves."

"A negative mind will never give you a positive life."


"We must be true ambassadors of Christ on the earth in order to be able to put an end to the plague of ignorance in our society."

"There are some hurts that we experience that can be forgiven but we won't forget them."

"Character is doing what you don't want to do but know you should do."

"One's self-satisfaction is an untaxed kind of property which it is very unpleasant to find deprecated."

"Stupidity is relatively harmless, but intelligent stupidity is highly dangerous"

"Life is magical for a lover."

"Whether it is in a sales situation, love at first sight, a husband and wife having an important conversation, a parent disciplining a child, or a teacher instructing her students, eye contact is a powerful body language for enriching engagement, focus, and communication."

"She seemed to know, to accept, to welcome her position, the citadel of the family, the strong place that could not be taken. And since old Tom and the children could not know hurt or fear unless she acknowledged hurt or fear, she had practiced denying them in herself. And since, when a joyful thing happened, they looked to see whether joy was on her, it was her habit to build laughter out of inadequate materials....She seemed to know that if she swayed the family shook, and if she ever deeply wavered or despaired the family would fall."

"Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn't learn a thing. God doesn't bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?"

"Words of sincere felt in heart and trigger smile."
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