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Relationship Quotes


"I'm not an advocate of promiscuity; but then I'm also not an advocate of being virginal. It's not like I put virginity or celibacy on a pedestal, and as long as I don't get your promiscuity rubbed into my face- I don't care about it! What I do care about is the ability to recognize the sanctity of a union of two souls- you just can't say your soul isn't being united with others' when you have sex with them. So I think you'd better own up to what you're doing- no matter how frequently or infrequently or with how many different people you do it. I mean, make good choices! You are, after all, entwining your soul with another's."


"If they don't walk away, we have to walk away, and sometimes we do it crying."


"Being married or being in a close relationship is not based on how quickly you can get offended but on how you are ready to drop the offences, get over it and move ahead."



"He grinned again. We'd only been seeing each other for a few weeks now, but this easy give-and-take still surprised me. From that very first day in my room, I felt like we'd somehow skipped the formalities of the Beginning of a Relationship: those awkward moments when you're not all over each other and are still feeling out the other person's boundaries and limits. Maybe this was because we'd been circling each other for a while before he finally catapulted through my window. But if I let myself think about it much - and I didn't - I had flashes of realising that I'd been comfortable with him even at the very start. Clearly, he'd been comfortable with me, grabbing my hand as he had that first day. As if he knew, even then, that we'd be here now."


"The death of marriage has been announced so often and would seem so normal, in a sense. So what's surprising is the sheer longevity and tenacity of this institution."



"Whatever language we use use to describe healthy relationships, when we're in them, we feel nourished by them, in body as well as mind."


"But when, as is most often the case, the husband and wife accept the external obligation to live together all their lives and have, by the second month, come to loathe the sight of each other, want to get divorced and yet go on living together, it usually ends in that terrible hell that drives them to drink, makes them shoot themselves, kill and poison each other."


"I nearly dropped the plate I held. "You've asked me out tons of times.""Not really. I've made inapproprite suggestions and frequently pushed for nudity. But I've never asked you out on a real date. And, if memory serves, you did say you'd give me a fair chance once I let you clean out my trust fund.""I didn't clean it out," I scoffed."


"If you can't love me in my rugs, you don't deserve me in my riches."


"This is why I didn't get married last year, she said to him. "I wouldn't be here to nurse you. She thought about that for a moment. "Of course, one could make the argument that you wouldn't be in this situation if not for me. But we're not going to dwell upon that."



"If I think too hard about a relationship, I'll talk myself out of it."


"Why can't we be friends now?" said the other, holding him affectionately. "It's what I want. It's what you want." But the horses didn't want it - they swerved apart: the earth didn't want it, sending up rocks through which riders must pass single file; the temple, the tank, the jail, the palace, the birds, the carrion, the Guest House, that came into view as they emerged from the gap and saw Mau beneath: they didn't want it, they said in their hundred voices "No, not yet," and the sky said "No, not there."



"A real relationship is two-way."


"I used to be lost in us. Blurred were the lines that separated us. But now, I see our togetherness in our separateness. I see the you in me and the me in you. We are two independent beings who complement one another like photographs that are beautiful on their own but are enhanced when juxtaposed, creating an altogether new photograph."


"Spend your time with people who recognise and appreciate your value."


"Jacinta never told Penelope that she loved her. The nurse knew that those who really love, love in silence, with deeds and not with words."


"At that moment there was a knock on the door, and Sam came in. He ran to Frodo and took his left hand, awkwardly and shyly. He stroked it gently and then he blushed and turned hastily away."


"To patch up a relationship, understanding is the needle, and love is the thread."


"The greatest life is to share, to sacrifice and to serve."


"Friendship is so important. The goal of a good friendship should be for life! To keep it for life! If you find a friendship, and it gives you a joy inside, a peace, and a freedom; keep that friendship for life. Through it all, you stay together. So many friendships are toxic, but the good ones are really good! I always tell my son this, I always say, a friend is for life!"


"I prefer having sex with myself rather than with someone who wants something instead."



"Without equanimity, we might give love to others only in an effort to bridge the inevitable and healthy space that always exists between two people."


"Good sex scene is about the exchange of emotions, not bodily fluids."


"Why?Why?Do you follow me and then unfollow me?Do you add me as a friend and then delete me?"


"But when two people feel something, they ought to respect that enough to figure it out."


"Strangers were a fairytale full of possibilities not yet corrupted by reality while caregivers were the reality " and everything that couldn't be counted upon."


"Sometimes, he gets on my nerves;At other times, I burn the ladder."



"I didn't answer, but, please-nothing is obvious with boys. For such simple creatures, they are quite baffling."


"As you open to love, you can begin the process of defining your intentions for your dating life."



"She's a sailboat and I'm an anchor, pulling us both down."


"Serve one another with brotherly love."


"All that mattered was him looking at me."


"You ought to welcome troubled-souls with your peaceful-spirits."


"Maybe that's what we do to the people we love: take shots in the dark and realize too late that we've wounded the people we are trying to protect."


"I didn't have that kind of friendship, the forever kind of friendship that will last your whole life through, no matter what."


"So long as I remain in Day's life, I will hurt him. Any other alternative is impossible.Now, he is free."


"I mean, if the relationship can't survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?"


"The modern world is filled with failed relationships."


"You can make your marriage a little bit of heaven on earth by following God's plan of teamwork."


"There was something delightfully intimate about the relationship between predator and prey."


"Yes, I decided, a man can truly change. The events of the past year have taught me much about myself, and a few universal truths. I learned, for instance, that while wounds can be inflicted easily upon those we love, it's often much more difficult to heal them. Yet the process of healing those wounds provided the richest experience of my life, leading me to believe that while I've often overestimated what I could accomplish in a day, I had underestimated what I could do in a year. But most of all, I learned that it's possible for two people to fall in love all over again, even when there's been a lifetime of disappointment between them."


"Men most often know what they want, yet they are not always sure how they feel. Women most often know how they feel, yet they may not always know what they want."


"Having a friend made everything else suck less."


"Love is blind, but a broken heart sees everything."


"I look at Kitty, who's braiding Chris's hair in microbraids. She's being extra quiet so we forget she's here and don't kick her out. 'I think that as long as you're ready and it's what you want to do and you're protecting yourself, then it's okay and you should do what you want to do.'Margot says, 'Society is far too caught up in shaming a woman for enjoying sex and applauding a man. I mean, all of the comments are about how Lara Jean is a slut, but nobody's saying anything about Peter, and he's right there with her. It's a ridiculous double standard."


"A father is as much a verb as a mother."


"Even if one is doing nothing more than eating Chinese food with one's Muslim and Jewish friends (don't order the pork lo mein), being together on the longest nights of the year, as the cold sets into the ground and makes it crunch, the warmth inside is infectious and transcendent."


"Unhealthy relationships are most commonly lacking in the most essential of ingredient: healthy communication."


"Always show kindness and love to others. Your words might be filling the empty places in someone's heart."


"Control doesn't validate love, it validates the nonexistence of trust and the painful unwillingness to accept the truth."
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