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"Much of the work of midlife is to tell the difference between those who are dealing with their issues through you and those who are really dealing with you."
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"The human ego prefers anything, just about anything, to falling, or changing, or dying. The ego is that part of you that loves the status quo ' even when it's not working. It attaches to past and present and fears the future."
"Change is not what we expect from religious people. They tend to love the past more than the present or the future."
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"True baptism allows us to reframe, and contain, the reality of evil, without needing to blame anyone else, without any need for shame or vengeance. We are all in this together, and our common wound shows itself in different ways."
"Every time God forgives us, God is saying that God's own rules do not matter as much as the relationship that God wants to create with us."
"The human art form is in uniting fruitful activity with a contemplative stance, not one or the other, but always both at the same time."
"Forgiveness becomes central to Jesus' teaching, because to receive reality is always to 'bear it, to bear with reality for not meeting all of our needs. To accept reality is to forgive reality for being what it is, almost day by day and sometimes even hour by hour. Such a practice creates patient and humble people.Forgiveness reveals three goodnesses simultaneously. When we forgive, we choose the goodness of the other over their faults, we experience God's goodness flowing through ourselves, and we also experience our own capacity for goodness in a way that almost surprises us. We are finally in touch with a much Higher Power, and we slowly learn how to draw upon this Infinite Source."
"It's true all the time everywhere or it's not true! And that one truth is always Mystery."
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