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Quotes by Psychologist

"I'm here for you. Always. Do you feel me?Hear me? I talk to you every night, does it reach you?"

"I am not a Sunday morning inside four wallswith clean bloodand organized drawers.I am the hurricane setting fire to the forestsat night when no one else is aliveor awakehowever you choose to see itand I live in my own flamessometimes burning too bright and too wildto make things lastor handlemyself or anyone elseand so I run.run run runfar and wideuntil my bones ache and lungs splitand it feels good.Hear that people? It feels goodbecause I am the slave and ruler of my own bodyand I wish to do with it exactly as I please."

"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with."

"A belligerent state permits itself every such misdeed, every such act of violence, as would disgrace the individual."

"To be concentrated means to live fully in the present, in the here and now, and not to think of the next thing to be done, while I am doing something right now."

"The more perfect a person is on the outside, the more demons they have on the inside."

"We... have created a greater material wealth than any other society in the history of the human race. Yet we have managed to kill off millions of our population in an arrangement which we call "war."

"And I've known people who came out with a sense of torture."

"Without pay, no human being will work up to their ability if he or she is not cared for and respected."

"The method of magnitude estimation provided a direct measure of sensation."

"I believe that the testing of the student's achievements in order to see if he meets some criterion held by the teacher, is directly contrary to the implications of therapy for significant learning."

"It's too bad for us 'literary' enthusiasts, but it's the truth nevertheless - pictures tell any story more effectively than words."

"Freedom is man's capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves."

"I don't practice, but I am still officially in paediatrics. I keep in touch with journals, and I have a very good data bank of medical information and there is a key thing for a writer knowing where to go. I know where to go to get the information that I need."

"The beliefs concerning reincarnation have great ethical impact on human life and our relationship to the world."

"I have been primarily interested in how and why ordinary people do unusual things, things that seem alien to their natures. Why do good people sometimes act evil? Why do smart people sometimes do dumb or irrational things?"

"My early childhood prepared me to be a social psychologist. I grew up in a South Bronx ghetto in a very poor family. From Sicilian origin, I was the first person in my family to complete high school, let alone go to college."

"Psychiatric expert testimony: mendacity masquerading as medicine."

"Education, whatever else it should or should not be, must be an inoculation against the poisons of life and an adequate equipment in knowledge and skill for meeting the chances of life."

"Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one's death."

"If men and women are to understand each other, to enter into each other's nature with mutual sympathy, and to become capable of genuine comradeship, the foundation must be laid in youth."

"The story of the human race is the story of men and women selling themselves short."

"Philosophic meditation is an accomplishment by which I attain Being and my own self, not impartial thinking which studies a subject with indifference."

"There is no way to prosperity, prosperity is the way."

"Live as if you were living a second time, and as though you had acted wrongly the first time."

"I cannot always control what goes on outside. But I can always control what goes on inside."

"In teaching man, experimental science results in lessening his pride more and more by proving to him every day that primary causes, like the objective reality of things, will be hidden from him forever and that he can only know relations."

"We don't focus as much in schools on educational knowledge which requires thinking and application, as we do on acquiring facts."

"Blacks in the Caribbean, Britain, Canada and sub-Saharan Africa as well as in the United States have low IQ scores relative to whites."

"We teach people that they upset themselves. We can't change the past, so we change how people are thinking, feeling and behaving today."

"Let's suppose somebody abused you sexually. You still had a choice, though not a good one, about what to tell yourself about the abuse."

"While waiting for a Moses to lead us into the promised land, we have forgotten how to walk."

"We need criminals to identify ourselves with, to secretly envy and to stoutly punish. They do for us the forbidden, illegal things we wish to do."

"For a small child there is no division between playing and learning; between the things he or she does just for fun and things that are educational. The child learns while living and any part of living that is enjoyable is also play."

"Many psychoanalysts refused to let me speak at their meetings. They were exceptionally vigorous because I had previously been an analyst and they were very angry at my flying the coop."

"The parents have not only to train their children: it is of at least equal importance that they should train themselves."

"No story is worth telling without the twists and turns. Make them count instead."


"It is easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them."

"I am running and singing and when it's raining I'm the only one left on the open street, smiling with my eyes fixed on the sky because it's cleaning me. I'm the one on the other side of the party, hearing laughter and the emptying of bottles while I peacefully make my way to the river, a lonely road, following the smell of the ocean. I'm the one waking up at 4am to witness the sunrise, where the sky touches the sea, and I hold my elbows, grasping tight to whatever I've made of myself."

"To deny the predictive validity of race at this level is nonscientific and unrealistic."

"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable."

"You can start anew at any given moment. Life is just the passage of time and it's up to you to pass it as you please."


"I was not out to paint beautiful pictures; even painting good pictures was not important to me. I wanted only to help the truth burst forth."

"Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties."

"I am actually not at all a man of science, not an observer, not an experimenter, not a thinker. I am by temperament nothing but a conquistador - an adventurer, if you want it translated - with all the curiosity, daring, and tenacity characteristic of a man of this sort."

"Why should anyone be so grateful for acceptance unless he doubts that he is acceptable, and why should a young, educated and successful couple have such doubts, if not due to the fact that they cannot accept themselves because they are not themselves."

"I have to say I regretted giving up animated movies."
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