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"The shortest short-term investment is to serve ourselves."

"As a woman, I see myself as a garden, and I see myself as the gardener of myself, I see myself forming and pruning and watering and nourishing all the flowers and trees and vines and leaves in me. There is a world within yourself, that has so much to offer! If only you would walk into it each day! We were not meant to save the world; we were meant to save ourselves! And in saving ourselves, we have saved worlds innumerable."

"Don't wait for people to dress your bed for you, do it yourself and you'll be glad to sleep and feel relaxed."

"It's more than ok to say no to the people and places that harm your peace."

"Let me ask you something, in all the years that you have...undressed in front of a gentleman has he ever asked you to leave? Has he ever walked out and left? No? It's because he doesn't care! He's in a room with a naked girl, he just won the lottery. I am so tired of saying no, waking up in the morning and recalling every single thing I ate the day before, counting every calorie I consumed so I know just how much self loathing to take into the shower. I'm going for it. I have no interest in being obese, I'm just through with the guilt. So this is what I'm going to do, I'm going to finish this pizza, and then we are going to go watch the soccer game, and tomorrow we are going to go on a little date and buy ourselves some bigger jeans."

"I made a conscious effort to name my needs and desires. To carefully listen to and accurately identify what I felt. Hunger, exhaustion, cold, lower-back ache, thirst. The ephemeral pangs: wistfulness and loneliness. Rest fixed most things. Sleep was my sweet reward. I treated bedtime as both incentive and sacrament."

"No one benefits from an empty jar, fill yourself first before pouring out to others."

"Kindness always works with the most important person - YOU. Be kind for you, not others."

"Stop falling for those who won't raise you up in the future."
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"The examined life: nothing is more futile or counterproductive. The active, joyous, spontaneous life: that is what one should aim for."

"Practically all the sadness we experience in life comes from our feeling sorry for ourselves."
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