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"We violated each other's boundaries with verbal missiles of anger disguised in the pretense of 'just kidding."

"I'll share my life with you. But, not my doughnuts."

"Don't get me wrong, she was an attractive girl, but the last thing she needed was to get mixed up with me."

"You cannot pour more water into a full cup without causing a spillage."

"Don't lower your standards to keep anyone, if they're not making you happy, it's time to find someone who does."

"We should have the right to have someone leave when we want, to only allow those in who we want in. But the truth is, people can force their way into your life whenever they choose. If they want to remind you forevermore that they exist, they will. They can reappear in a card or call or a 'chance' meeting, they can remember your birthday or the day you met with some innocuous small note. No matter how little they matter in your new life, they can insist on being seen and recognized and remembered."

"When teaching someone a boundary, they learn less from the enforcement of the boundary, and more from the way the boundary is established."

"I suggest to you, late or not late, the moment you have discovered that the mission of someone is to pee on your dreams, keep him away or keep away from him."

"Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand."

"Move away from Machiavellian hearts. Manipulative people can frame you up even if you have a humble, simple and generous heart. Question their motive."
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"We violated each other's boundaries with verbal missiles of anger disguised in the pretense of 'just kidding."

"Teenagers can spot hypocrisy a mile away and here I was telling them how to cope when they witnessed the shambles of my own life and how I was living."

"The greater the pain associated with love, the more likely a person is to be attracted to others who will inflict this pain for isn't this what love is? Hurt people tend to hurt other people."

"People build defenses around a weakness, not around strength. Where self-esteem is strong, a defense is unnecessary."

"Families living in dysfunction seldom have healthy boundaries. Dysfunctional families have trouble knowing where they stop and others begin."

"Children naturally believe without question and absorb knowledge at an incredible rate; since there is no other frame of reference; they believe their parental reality, true or false."

"The key problem I encounter working with wounded, depressed, and unhappy people is a lack of connection starting from a disconnection from themselves and then with others. This is why love often becomes so distorted and destructive. When people experience a disconnection from themselves, they feel it but do not realize the problem."

"Swirling in a squirrel cage of perpetual motion, the head-committee meets, argues, votes out the guidance available from emotions, and successfully keeps serenity at bay and chaos close at hand."

"My prayer is an attitude of pure gratitude for having the opportunity to experience life on this earth with all its pain, heartache, worry, and turmoil; coupled with this gratitude is the thankfulness for just having the opportunity to have lived. That is fairly easy on good days but difficult when life puts rocks and boulders in the road."
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