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Relationship Quotes


"I'm not comfortable in this stadium, I explained, trying to look calm."I know. And you hate Fang looking at those girls. But we're still havingfun, and Fang still loves you, and you'll still save the world. Okay?"


"You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Hagar, don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that."


"She got a sense that their time together was valuable, as though she needed to hold on to every minute as if it were their last. He was too good to be true, every moment spent with him magical, so much so that she presumed this couldn't last forever. None of her good feelings had lasted forever, none of the people who lightened her life managed to stay. Going by her previous luck, from pure fear of not wanting to lose something so special, she was just waiting for the day he would leave. Whoever he was, he was healing her, he was teaching her to smile, teaching her to laugh, and she wondered what she could teach him."


"Ultimately virility is all about helping others express their reluctantly shared feelings while doing so from a safe distance."


"Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C."


"The next time you try to seduce anyone, don't do it with talk, with words. Women know more about words than men ever will. And they know how little they can ever possibly mean."


"He reached out a long arm and drew me in, holding me close against him. I put my arms around him and felt the quiver of his muscles, exhausted, and the sheer hard strength still in him, that would hold him up, no matter how tired he might be. We stood quite still for some time, my cheek against his chest and his face against my hair, drawing strength from each other for whatever might come next. Being married."


"I think 'The Color Purple' is so bursting with love, the need for connection, the showing of the need for connection around the globe."


"Friends are medicine for a wounded heart and vitamins for a hopeful soul."


"I'm only up when you're not downDon't wanna fly if you're still on the ground."


"Building on a bond is bankable. Building on bitterness is bankrupt."


"For some women, they need a man. For others, men need them."


"It means little to anybody but us. We set store by kinfolk. We've our troubles from time to time, but when one of us is in danger, there'll be help from any who are around."


"Just like that. From a hundred miles an hour to asleep in a nanosecond. I wanted so badly to lie down next to her on the couch, to wrap my arms around her and sleep. Not f*ck, like in those movies. Not even have sex. Just sleep together, in the most innocent sense of the phrase. But I lacked the courage and she had a boyfriend and I was gawky and she was gorgeous and I was hopelessly boring and she was endlessly fascinating. So I walked back to my room and collapsed on the bottom bunk, thinking that if people were rain, I was drizzle and she was a hurricane."


"Mrs Beaumont shrugged. 'Dougie travelled light in life,' she said. 'He knew it was people who were important."


"When both you and your spouse actively focus on developing godly character qualities, the foundation of your marriage will be twice as strong."


"Ember was mine. The other half of me. And I would fight Talon, St George, and the entire d world to keep her safe."


"If you're courting me, you have to tell me something about yourself that no one else knows." He was silent for a moment. "I'd rather jerk-off to thoughts of you than be with anyone else."


"For men, as a rule, love is but an episode which takes place among the other affairs of the day, and the emphasis laid on it in novels gives it an importance which is untrue to life. There are few men to whom it is the most important thing in the world, and they are not the very interesting ones; even women, with whom the subject is of paramount interest, have a contempt for them."


"Despite his soft speech, he stared at her as he'd like to eat her whole. Damn her traitorous body if that thought wasn't such a bad one. This could not be happening. She was on the run from a maniac and her hormones were going haywire. Clearly, she had issues."


"Do not turn me intorestless watersif you cannot promiseto be my stream."


"Hungry for love, He looks at you. Thirsty for kindness, He begs of you. Naked for loyalty, He hopes in you. Homeless for shelter in your heart, He asks of you. Will you be that one to Him?"


"There had been moments when she felt he had almost forgiven her. She would always remember those moments."


"She was as sated with him as he was tired of her. Emma had rediscovered in adultery all the banality of marriage."


"If all of her was not enough for him, then let him have none of her and seek what he needed elsewhere."


"Terrifying, that the loss of intimacy with one person results in the freezing over of the world, and the loss of oneself! And terrifying that the terms of love are so rigorous, its checks and liberties so tightly bound together. Their relationship depended on her restraint. The premise of their affair, or the basis of their comedy, was that they were two independent people, who needed each other for a time, who would always be friends, but who, probably, would not always be lovers. Such a premise forbids the intrusion of the future, or too vivid an exhibition of need."


"Before marriage, you lose your virginity. After marriage, you get to give it away. Which would you rather experience?"


"Friends can become enemies, and enemies can become friends. Ego and pride can turn what is good into bad, and kind words can turn what is bad into something good."


"We've been together 32 years and married for 27."


"Capitalism has socialized production. It has brought thousands of people together in the factory and involved them in new social relationships."


"Outer relationships with a man or a woman are a mirror of the relationship between our own inner man and woman. Embracing our own inner man and woman means to understand the inner drama that happens between our male and female aspects, which manifests on the outside as relationships."


"I don't think it's necessarily healthy to go into relationships as a needy person. Better to go in with a full deck."


"Whenever I get married, I start buying Gourmet magazine."


"Courtship consists in a number of quiet attentions, not so pointed as to alarm, nor so vague as not to be understood."


"No man wants to feel that he's there because of his woman's biological clock or because he's filling a job opening for husband or significant other."


"It is easier to keep half a dozen lovers guessing than to keep one lover after he has stopped guessing."


"When I married Paul, we lived in St John's Wood in London. We had nice next-door neighbours, but you don't know anyone else. Everyone lives in isolation."


"Save me, I need you, life is sad without you."


"Woman's dearest delight is to wound Man's self-conceit though Man's dearest delight is to gratify hers."


"She had accepted him as he was and had spared him a great deal of loneliness. He had been unfair: while his imagination and vanity had given her too much importance, his pride had given her too little. He discovered the cruel paradox by which we always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love - first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage."



"That is the great distinction between the sexes. Men see objects, women see the relationships between objects."


"A husband is like a fire - he goes out when unattended."


"Before the thunderous clamor of political debate or war set loose in the world, love insisted on its promise for the possibility of human unity: between men and women, between blacks and whites, northerners and southerners, haves and have-have-nots, self and self."


"The sun, too, shines into cesspools and is not polluted."


"If something on the inside is telling you that someone isn't right for you, they're NOT right for you, no matter how great they might look on paper. When it's right for you, you will know. And when it's not " it's time to go."


"If a man WANTS to be with you, he will make his actions clear. There won't be any questions, murkiness, cloudiness, or fear."


"When Ego is in control it judges and punishes. But love forgives and heals. Surrendering, is one of the most powerful choices one can make.The doors of love only open for the person who is prepared to let his ego go. To surrender one's ego for someone else is love; to surrender one's ego for all is divine love."


"A woman can become a man's friend only in the following stages - first an acquantaince, next a mistress, and only then a friend."


"In every question and every remark tossed back and forth between lovers who have not played out the last fugue, there is one question and it is this: 'Is there someone new?'"


"Imagine you had a friend who was there for you all the time and you were there for them, but they stopped being there for you as much as they used to which you can understand a little because people have things to do, but then they're around less and less no matter how much you try to reach out to them. Then suddenly one day - nothing - they're gone. Just like that. Then you write to them, and you're ignored, and then you write to them again and you're ignored and finally you write to them for a third time and they barely even want to make the appointment, they're so busy with their job, their friends and their car. How would you feel?"
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