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Aspen Matis

"If I could mark clearly, convincingly and consistently what was good for me and also what was bad-if I could say yes and also no, as if it were the law-it would become my law."

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"If I could mark clearly, convincingly and consistently what was good for me and also what was bad-if I could say yes and also no, as if it were the law-it would become my law."

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Donna Grant

"Limitations can be reasonably expanded. We are constantly challenging our limitations. But a hobbled mind is not going anywhere."

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Donna Grant

"Not to be greedy is, paradoxically, the highest form of looking after one's true interests."

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Donna Grant

"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self."

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Donna Grant

"The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile."

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Donna Grant

"The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain."

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Donna Grant

"Refuse to react to any angry actions."

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Donna Grant

"Negative desires can cause no evil if you do not allow yourself to be seduced by them."

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Donna Grant

"We do not yet possess ourselves, and we know at the same time that we are much more."

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Donna Grant

"Immediate gratification is a dream killer."

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Donna Grant

"Tis easier to suppress the first desire than to satisfy all that follow it."

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Aspen Matis
"If I could mark clearly, convincingly and consistently what was good for me and also what was bad-if I could say yes and also no, as if it were the law-it would become my law."

Self-Control

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Aspen Matis
"From that unremarkable gap in dense northern forest, I could finally see clearly that if I hadn't walked away from school, through devastating beauty alone on the Pacific Crest Trail, met rattlesnakes and bears, fording frigid and remote rivers as deep as I am tall-feeling terror and the gratitude that followed the realization that I'd survived rape-I'd have remained lost, maybe for my whole life. The trail had shown me how to change.This is the story of how my recklessness became my salvation.I wrote it."

Healing

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Aspen Matis
"The way to self-love and admiration is to behave like someone whom you love and admire."

Self

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Aspen Matis
"Rest fixed most things. Sleep was my sweet reward. I treated bedtime as both incentive and sacrament."

Rest

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Aspen Matis
"The bravest thing I ever did was leave there. The next bravest thing I did was come back, to make myself heard."

Courage

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Aspen Matis
"The trees were friendly, they gave me rest and shadowed refuge. Slipping through them, I felt safe and competent. My whole body was occupied. I had little energy to think or worry."

Nature

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Aspen Matis
"She taught me only how to need to be taken care of. I was here because I needed to learn to take responsibility for making my own decisions - to earn my own trust."

Responsibility

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Aspen Matis
"He hadn't treated me with the love and compassion I wanted, but I was worthy of that love, and someday some boy would have it for me. I hadn't found it yet, but I would find it soon."

Love

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Aspen Matis
"I was so much more powerful than anyone knew. I was an animal learning to fight back, instinctively, fiercely. I was a brave girl. I was a fit fox.I realized that the most empowering important thing was actually simply taking care of myself."

Empowerment

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Aspen Matis
"The wisdom of my body had cultivated vibrantly since those sadness-drunken months after the rape when I'd felt so numbed by the hurt and shame that I didn't move further. No longer. The way I felt about being sexually shamed had changed. Now I was angry that others were trying to shame my sexuality in the first place. I flushed-this time not in shame-but in rage."

Empowerment

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