Sheryl Sandberg is the former COO of Facebook, author of Lean In, and a prominent advocate for women�s leadership. Through her writing and public speaking, Sandberg has inspired countless women to overcome barriers, build careers, and find balance. Her message emphasizes the importance of taking risks, advocating for oneself, and supporting other women in their journey. As a leader in the tech world, Sandberg�s impact extends beyond business, as she actively works to promote diversity, inclusion, and social change. Her journey inspires others to challenge limitations and pursue leadership with courage.

"Motivation comes from working on things we care about. It also comes from working with people we care about."



"Presenting leadership as a list of carefully defined qualities (like strategic, analytical, and performance-oriented) no longer holds. Instead, true leadership stems from individuality that is honestly and sometimes imperfectly expressed.... Leaders should strive for authenticity over perfection."


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"It turns out that a husband who does the laundry, it's very romantic when you're older. And it's hard to believe when you're younger. But it's absolutely true."



"Our discomfort with female leadership runs deep. We call little girls bossy. We never really call little boys bossy, because a boy is expected to lead, so it doesn't surprise or offend."



"I'm sorry if this sounds harsh or surprises anyone, but this is where we are. If you want the outcome to be different, you will have to do something about it."



"My grandfather had a paint store. It's what put my mom through college. Small business is part of my family history."



"I'm a pragmatist. I think, as a woman, you have to be more careful. You have to be more communal, you have to say yes to more things than men, you have to worry about things that men don't have to worry about. But once we get enough women into leadership, we can break stereotypes down. If you lead, you get to decide."



"Show me a woman without guilt and I'll show you a man."



"If we push hard now, this next wave can be the last wave. In the future, there will be no female leaders. There will just be leaders."



"I would love to meet J.K. Rowling and tell her how much I admire her writing and am amazed by her imagination. I read every 'Harry Potter' book as it came out and looked forward to each new one. I am rereading them now with my kids and enjoying them every bit as much. She made me look at jelly beans in a whole new way."



"You have to take opportunities and make an opportunity fit for you, rather than the other way around."



"He said that when you want to change things, you can't please everyone. If you do please everyone, you aren't making enough progress. Mark was right."



"It is the ultimate luxury to combine passion and contribution. It's also a very clear path to happiness."



"We can each define ambition and progress for ourselves. The goal is to work toward a world where expectations are not set by the stereotypes that hold us back, but by our personal passion, talents and interests."



"Feminism wasn't supposed to make us feel guilty, or prod us into constant competition over who is raising children better, organizing more cooperative marriages, or getting less sleep. It was supposed to make us free -to give us not only choices but the ability to make these choices without constantly feeling that we'd somehow gotten it wrong."



"I'd like to see where boys and girls end up if they get equal encouragement - I think we might have some differences in how leadership is done."



"I don't believe we have a professional self Monday through Friday and a real self the rest of the time. It is all professional, and it is all personal."



"Looking back, it made no sense for my college friends and me to distance ourselves from the hard-won achievements of earlier feminists. We should have cheered their efforts. Instead, we lowered our voices, thinking the battle was over, and with this reticence we hurt ourselves."



"There is no perfect fit when you're looking for the next big thing to do. You have to take opportunities and make an opportunity fit for you, rather than the other way around."



"Women don't take enough risks. Men are just 'foot on the gas pedal.' We're not going to close the achievement gap until we close the ambition gap."



"Women need to shift from thinking "I'm not ready to do that" to thinking "I want to do that- and I'll learn by doing it."



"By focusing on her career and taking a calculated approach to amassing power, Heidi violated our stereotypical expectations of women. Yet by behaving in the same manner, Howard lived up to our stereotypical expectations of men. The end result? Liked him, disliked her."



"Each one of us is more than the worst thing we've ever done."



"If we want a world with greater equality, we need to acknowledge that women are less likely to keep their hands up. We need institutions and individuals to notice and correct for this behavior by encouraging, promoting, and championing more women. And women have to learn to keep their hands up, because when they lower them, even managers with the best intentions might not notice."



"I have a five year-old son and a three year-old daughter. I want my son to have a choice to contribute fully in the workforce or at home. And I want my daughter to have the choice to not just succeed, but to be liked for her accomplishments."



"When my mother took her turn to sit in a gown at her graduation, she thought she only had two career options: nursing and teaching. She raised me and my sister to believe that we could do anything, and we believed her."



"Women can enter (...) negotiations with the knowledge that showing concern for the common good, even as they negotiate for themselves, will strengthen their position."



"A truly equal world would be one where women ran half our countries and companies and men ran half our homes. I believe that this would be a better world."



"If I had to embrace a definition of success, it would be that success is making the best choices we can . . . and accepting them."



"She explained that many people, but especially women, feel fraudulent when they are praised for their accomplishments. Instead of feeling worthy of recognition, they feel undeserving and guilty, as if a mistake has been made. Despite being high achievers, even experts in their fields, women can't seem to shake the sense that it is only a matter of time until they are found out for who they really are- impostors with limited skills or abilities."



"Fortune does favor the bold and you'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."



"To really care about others, we have to understand them - what they like and dislike, what they feel as well as think. Emotion drives both men and women and influences every decision we make. Recognizing the role emotions play and being willing to discuss them makes us better managers, partners, and peers."



"We need more men to sit at the table... at the kitchen table."



"When woman work outside the home and share breadwinning duties, couples are more likely to stay together. In fact, the risk of divorce reduces by about half when a wife earns half the income and a husband does half the housework."



"Taking risks, choosing growth, challenging ourselves, and asking for promotions (with smiles on our faces, of course) are all important elements of managing a career. One of my favorite quotes comes from author Alice Walker, who observed, "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any."Do not wait for power to be offered. Like that tiara, it might never materialize. And anyway, who wears a tiara on a jungle gym?"



"We cannot change what we are not aware of, and once we are aware, we cannot help but change."



"Feedback is an opinion, grounded in observations and experiences, which allows us to know what impression we make on others."



"I hope you find true meaning, contentment, and passion in your life. I hope you navigate the difficult times and come out with greater strength and resolve. I hope you find whatever balance you seek with your eyes wide open. And I hope that you - yes, you - have the ambition to lean in to your career and run the world. Because the world needs you to change it."



"Women have made tons of progress. But we still have a small percentage of the top jobs in any industry, in any nation in the world. I think that's partly because from a very young age, we encourage our boys to lead and we call our girls bossy."



"I wish I could just go tell all the young women I work with, all these fabulous women, 'Believe in yourself and negotiate for yourself. Own your own success.' I wish I could tell that to my daughter. But it's not that simple."



"No wonder women don't negotiate as often as men. It's like trying to cross a minefield backward in high heels."



"When I went to college, as much as my parents emphasized academic achievement, they emphasized marriage even more. They told me that the most eligible women marry young to get a 'good man' before they are all taken."



"If more women are in leadership roles, we'll stop assuming they shouldn't be."


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"In the future, there will be no female leaders. There will just be leaders."



"Communication works best when we combine appropriateness with authenticity, finding that sweet spot where opinions are not brutally honest but delicately honest."

