Epictetus was a Greek philosopher and a leading figure in Stoicism, known for his teachings on personal resilience, virtue, and the importance of inner peace. His philosophy emphasized the idea that while we cannot control external events, we can control our reactions and attitudes. Epictetus' lessons continue to resonate with those seeking to live more intentionally, embracing challenges as opportunities for growth. His ideas inspire individuals to lead lives of integrity and balance, focusing on what can be controlled and letting go of what cannot.
"Isn't reading a kind of preparation for life?' But life is composed of things other than books. It is as if an athlete, on entering the stadium, were to complain that he's not outside exercising.This was the goal of your exercise, of your weights, your practice ring and your training partners."
"When a youth was giving himself airs in the Theatre and saying, 'I am wise, for I have conversed with many wise men,' Epictetus replied, 'I too have conversed with many rich men, yet I am not rich!'."
"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak."
"It is more necessary for the soul to be cured than the body, for it is better to die than to live badly."
"If you wish to live a life free from sorrow think of what is going to happen as if it had already happened."
"He is a drunkard who takes more than three glasses though he be not drunk."
"Don't just say you have read books. Show that through them you have learned to think better, to be a more discriminating and reflective person. Books are the training weights of the mind. They are very helpful, but it would be a bad mistake to suppose that one has made progress simply by having internalized their contents."
"If thy brother wrongs thee, remember not so much his wrong-doing, but more than ever that he is thy brother."
"Freedom is not archived by satisfying desire, but by eliminating it."
"Practice yourself for heaven's sake in little things and thence proceed to greater."
"We are not troubled by things but by the opinion which we have of things."
"He is a man of sense who does not grieve for what he has not but rejoices in what he has."
"Man, what are you talking about? Me in chains? You may fetter my leg but my will, not even Zeus himself can overpower."
"What really frightens and dismays us is not external events themselves, but the way in which we think about them. It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation of their significance."
"So when the crisis is upon you remember that God like a trainer of wrestlers has matched you with a tough and stalwart antagonist... that you may prove a victor at the Great Games."
"Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is won by disregarding things that lie beyond our control."
"It is not so much what happens to you as how you think about what happens."
"In the long run, every man will pay the penalty for his own misdeeds. The man who remembers this will be angry with no one, indignant with no one, revile no one, blame no one, offend no one, hate no one."
"The condition and characteristic of an uninstructed person is this: he never expects from himself profit (advantage) nor harm, but from externals. The condition and characteristic of a philosopher is this: he expects all advantage and all harm from himself."
"What you shun enduring yourself, attempt not to impose on others. You shun slavery- beware enslaving others! If you can endure to do that, one would think you had been once upon a time a slave yourself. For vice has nothing in common with virtue, nor Freedom with slavery."
"Practice yourself in little things and thence proceed to greater."
"When you do anything from a clear judgment that it ought to be done, never shrink from being seen to do it, even though the world should misunderstand it; for if you are not acting rightly, shun the action itself; if you are, why fear those who wrongly censure you?"