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Aspen Matis

"I'd have to be impolite, an inconvenience, and sometimes awkward. But if I could commit, all that discomfort would add up to zap predatory threads like a Taser gun. I'd stun them. They'd bow to me. I'd let my no echo against the mountains.And better to feel bad for a moment saying no-and stop it-than to get harmed.I would take better care.That small word, no. I'd see its deity."

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"I'd have to be impolite, an inconvenience, and sometimes awkward. But if I could commit, all that discomfort would add up to zap predatory threads like a Taser gun. I'd stun them. They'd bow to me. I'd let my no echo against the mountains.And better to feel bad for a moment saying no-and stop it-than to get harmed.I would take better care.That small word, no. I'd see its deity."

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"It is very possible to acknowledge another person's concerns without entering into their vibration."

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"I will feel no guilt on shutting my door to those who didn't listen."

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Donna Grant

"He will not let you come barging in to his world like the proverbial bull in the china shop."

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"The walls around the hood keep the people on the inside from the changes on the outside."

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"Sounds naive respecting someone who doesn't give a shit about you."

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Donna Grant

"Okay, but if you try to get me to pray with you, I walk."

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Donna Grant

"Stop raping me with your eyes!"

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Donna Grant

"The way to send a clear message that you are ready for better people in your life is the kick the rascals to the curb."

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"Wouldn't you rather have the respect of your friends and colleagues than succumb to pressure to do and say things that are out of character in order to feel accepted? You can overcome this habit simply by learning to say "no."

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"Don't allow someone not worth it to have the power to occupy your thoughts. If they don't find you worth the effort or the time, why should you waste yours?"

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Aspen Matis
"If I could mark clearly, convincingly and consistently what was good for me and also what was bad-if I could say yes and also no, as if it were the law-it would become my law."

Self-Control

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Aspen Matis
"From that unremarkable gap in dense northern forest, I could finally see clearly that if I hadn't walked away from school, through devastating beauty alone on the Pacific Crest Trail, met rattlesnakes and bears, fording frigid and remote rivers as deep as I am tall-feeling terror and the gratitude that followed the realization that I'd survived rape-I'd have remained lost, maybe for my whole life. The trail had shown me how to change.This is the story of how my recklessness became my salvation.I wrote it."

Healing

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Aspen Matis
"The way to self-love and admiration is to behave like someone whom you love and admire."

Self

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Aspen Matis
"Rest fixed most things. Sleep was my sweet reward. I treated bedtime as both incentive and sacrament."

Rest

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Aspen Matis
"The bravest thing I ever did was leave there. The next bravest thing I did was come back, to make myself heard."

Courage

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Aspen Matis
"I felt like I belonged to an ancient tradition of all young people given this same task of finding their own ways through to the futures they wanted for themselves."

Tradition

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Aspen Matis
"The trees were friendly, they gave me rest and shadowed refuge. Slipping through them, I felt safe and competent. My whole body was occupied. I had little energy to think or worry."

Nature

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Aspen Matis
"She taught me only how to need to be taken care of. I was here because I needed to learn to take responsibility for making my own decisions - to earn my own trust."

Responsibility

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Aspen Matis
"He hadn't treated me with the love and compassion I wanted, but I was worthy of that love, and someday some boy would have it for me. I hadn't found it yet, but I would find it soon."

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Aspen Matis
"I was so much more powerful than anyone knew. I was an animal learning to fight back, instinctively, fiercely. I was a brave girl. I was a fit fox.I realized that the most empowering important thing was actually simply taking care of myself."

Empowerment

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