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Stephen Chbosky

"I walk around the school hallways and look at the people. I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here. If they like their jobs. Or us. And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen. Not in a mean way. In a curious way. It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report due on top of that. Or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why."

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"I walk around the school hallways and look at the people. I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here. If they like their jobs. Or us. And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen. Not in a mean way. In a curious way. It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report due on top of that. Or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why."

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Donna Grant

"There are some great positive quotes out there that I can't quite share as I wonder how a victim in a war torn country could be expected to see from their perspective?"

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Donna Grant

"But what we can do, as flawed as we are, is still see God in other people, and do our best to help them find their own grace. That's what I strive to do, that's what I pray to do every day."

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Donna Grant

"An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity."

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Donna Grant

"Maybe we have shoes so we can learn to walk in another's oath before judging their footsteps?"

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Donna Grant

"The pain of humanity's most maltreated victims echoes deep within each of us, in the form of our shame or ignorance."

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Donna Grant

"Because no one is walking in your shoes, only you feel the sores on your feet."

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Donna Grant

"The idea that I can't share my problems with other people makes me not give a shit about their problems."

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Donna Grant

"If you have never walked a mile in someone's shoes, do not mock the soars on his feet."

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Donna Grant

"It's just that you're about to do something out of the ordinary. And after you do something like that, the everyday look of things might seem to change a little. Things may look different to you than they did before. But don't let appearances fool you. There's always only one reality."

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Donna Grant

"Just because an impressive storm doesn't touch you, you must not find it beautiful! Lend an ear to the voices of those which are under the storm!"

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Stephen Chbosky
"I know that things get worse before they get better because that's what my psychiatrist says, but this is a worse that feels too big."

Mental Health

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Stephen Chbosky
"I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people. You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love."

Life

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Stephen Chbosky
"She hated everything her parents loved."

Rebellion

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Stephen Chbosky
"It's much easier not to know things sometimes."

Awareness

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Stephen Chbosky
"She even told me how to treat a girl on a date, which was very interesting. She said that with a girl like Mary Elizabeth, you shouldn't tell her she looks pretty. You should tell her how nice her outfit is because her outfit is her choice whereas her face isn't. She also said that with some girls, you should do things like open car doors and buy flowers, but with Mary Elizabeth (especially since it's the Sadie Hawkins' dance), I shouldn't do that. So, I asked her what I should do, and she said that I should ask a lot of questions and not mind when Mary Elizabeth doesn't stop talking. I said that it didn't sound very democratic, but Sam said she does it all the time with boys."

Courtship

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Stephen Chbosky
"Please believe that things are good with me, and even when they're not, they will be soon enough. And i will always believe the same about you."

Reassurance

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Stephen Chbosky
"I just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with people even if they could have. I need to know that these people exist."

Validation

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Stephen Chbosky
"I walk around the school hallways and look at the people. I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here. If they like their jobs. Or us. And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen. Not in a mean way. In a curious way. It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report due on top of that. Or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why."

Empathy

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Stephen Chbosky
"So, tomorrow, I'm leaving. And I'm not going to let that happen again with anyone else. I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm going to be who I really am. And I'm going to figure out what that is. But right now I'm here with you. And I want to know where you are, what you need, and what you want to do."

Self-Discovery

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Stephen Chbosky
"It was hard to listen to her all the time without getting to say anything back."

Restraint

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