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"Your body is a temple, not a daily dumping ground for another person's pain, anger, betrayal, judgment, hypocrisy, denial, games, jealousy or blame. When you are being psychologically, spiritually or emotionally abused by a person, and they don't care how it hurts you, then it is time to leave what is polluting your relationship with God."
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"While you will certainly attract more bees with honey, there are times when being nice can backfire. Take it from a naturally kind person, being a "bitch has its time and place. There will be times when you must engage with mean, rude, and inconsiderate people."

"Just as the unwanted pregnancy, there are unwanted people in your life you should strive to abort, and such abortion is not sin, nor harm, but the eradication of a destructive foetus."

"Wouldn't you rather have the respect of your friends and colleagues than succumb to pressure to do and say things that are out of character in order to feel accepted? You can overcome this habit simply by learning to say "no."

"Being a good person has nothing to do with allowing people to destroy you."

"For more than forty years, Judith Martin has inspired the world with advice on etiquette excellence, proper behavior, and codes of conduct through her critically acclaimed newspaper column, "Miss Manners. In an interview for her book, Miss Manners Minds Your Business, Mrs. Martin reminds us that "When you go to work, you want a degree of professionalism which does not involve hearing about all of the sordid details of a person's love life. We are not necessarily all friends, but have a job that needs to be done. A work friend is not always a social friend. One requires distance while the other embraces intimacy."

"Your anger, pride, deceit, and greed should be such that they hurt no one. If they are limited to where they only hurt only you and no one else, then the path of liberation is open."

"When teaching someone a boundary, they learn less from the enforcement of the boundary, and more from the way the boundary is established."

"If the gate to your precious room is always left ajar, people shall least knock before entering into your precious room!"

"Don't lower your standards to keep anyone, if they're not making you happy, it's time to find someone who does."

"You live by whatever rules you need to govern your life the best you think. Let's just try not to encroach."
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"When you have a grasp on eternity your eyes won't ever see the battle or the lost people that hurt you. You will see a beautiful story of hope, in every character. It is not one person god loves. He loves us all and this is his story, our story and theirs."

"Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes."

"Vulnerability gives us freedom, power and connects us to a network of injured souls. It is through the art of being real that we can heal ourself and others."

"The man that is meant to love you will have a million questions about you, but none will ever ask your value."

"God is the only one that won't disappoint you. Everyone else is percentages of your peace."

"Forever echoed in their favor. "Never say never", she said softly. For you see, Forever had never heard of Never."

"Don't ever get to the point where you can't be taught because life is a classroom and everyone owns a pen."

"When you are being judged by someone that has no idea who you are always remember this: Dogs always bark at strangers and usually there is always some wacko neighbor that wants to try out their new gun on an intruder."
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