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All Quotes Collection


"In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must always suspect an opponent, and note who suffers most because of the patient's condition. Usually this is a member of the family."
36


"It is always easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them."
49


"The educator must believe in the potential power of his pupil, and he must employ all his art in seeking to bring his pupil to experience this power."
55


"It is one of the most effective attitudes of the neurotic to measure thumbs down, so to speak, a real person by an ideal, since in doing so he can depreciate him as much as he wishes."
47


"The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions."
52


"No experience is a cause of success or failure. We do not suffer from the shock of our experiences, so-called trauma - but we make out of them just what suits our purposes."
51


"We must never neglect the patient's own use of his symptoms."
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"It is easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them."
41

"Few are there that will leave the secure seclusion of the scholar's life, the peaceful walks of literature and learning, to stand out a target for the criticism of unkind and hostile minds."
37

"The platform of an Ethical Society is itself the altar; the address must be the fire that burns thereon."
38

"You do not build your own houses, nor make your own garments, nor bake your own bread, simply because you know that if you were to attempt all these things they would all be more or less ill done."
39

"The past speaks to us in a thousand voices, warning and comforting, animating and stirring to action."
93

"The office of the public teacher is an unenviable and thankless one."
38

"The exercises of our meeting are to be simple and devoid of all ceremonial and formalism."
49

"The Ethical Society, therefore, is like a Church in maintaining, and emphasizing the importance of maintaining the custom of public assemblies on Sunday."
42

"FOR a long time the conviction has been dimly felt in the community that, without prejudice to existing institutions, the legal day of weekly rest might be employed to advantage for purposes affecting the general good."
40

"Where the roots of private virtue are diseased, the fruit of public probity cannot but be corrupt."
41

"An anxious unrest, a fierce craving desire for gain has taken possession of the commercial world, and in instances no longer rare the most precious and permanent goods of human life have been madly sacrificed in the interests of momentary enrichment."
36

"Ethical religion can be real only to those who are engaged in ceaseless efforts at moral improvement. By moving upward we acquire faith in an upward movement, without limit."
48

"Every dogma, every philosophic or theological creed, was at its inception a statement in terms of the intellect of a certain inner experience."
49

"If you desire information on some point of law, you are not likely to ponder over the ponderous tomes of legal writers in order to obtain the knowledge you seek, by your own unaided efforts."
40

"In a country of such recent civilization as ours, whose almost limitless treasures of material wealth invite the risks of capital and the industry of labor, it is but natural that material interests should absorb the attention of the people to a degree elsewhere unknown."
38

"Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion that each include the other, each is enriched by the other."
53

"Admitting the force of these contentions, nevertheless, the custom of meeting together in public assembly for the consideration of the most serious, the most exalted topics of human interest is too vitally precious to be lost."
44

"That man is a creature who needs order yet yearns for change is the creative contradiction at the heart of the laws which structure his conformity and define his deviancy."
47

"There is another side to chivalry. If it dispenses leniency, it may with equal justification invoke control."
29

"Stripped of ethical rationalizations and philosophical pretensions, a crime is anything that a group in power chooses to prohibit."
27

"Rape is the only crime in which the victim becomes the accused."
30

"Major social movements eventually fade into the landscape not because they have diminished but because they have become a permanent part of our perceptions and experience."
29

"The passionate controversies of one era are viewed as sterile preoccupations by another, for knowledge alters what we seek as well as what we find."
32

"Conjugal love, or the friendship of spouses, can persist even after sexual desires have weakened, withered, and disappeared."
42

"In the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but how many can get through to you."
31

"If one wants another only for some self-satisfaction, usually in the form of sensual pleasure, that wrong desire takes the form of lust rather than love."
39

"I wonder if most people ever ask themselves why love is connected with reproduction. And if they do ask themselves about this, I wonder what answer they give."
33

"I find the selectivity of erotic love - the choice of this man or this woman - much more intelligible if liking the person is the origin of sexual interest, rather than the other way."
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