Charles Horton Cooley was an American sociologist whose work focused on the dynamics of social interaction and the development of the self. His theories on the 'looking-glass self' provided insight into how individuals shape their identity based on societal perceptions. Cooley's work continues to inspire sociologists and thinkers to understand human behavior through the lens of social influence, motivating those interested in psychology and social theory to explore the intricacies of human connections.
"There is hardly any one so insignificant that he does not seem imposing to some one at some time."
"To get away from one's working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one's self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change."
"So far as discipline is concerned, freedom means not its absence but the use of higher and more rational forms as contrasted with those that are lower or less rational."
"Between richer and poorer classes in a free country a mutually respecting antagonism is much healthier than pity on the one hand and dependence on the other, as is, perhaps, the next best thing to fraternal feeling."
"A man may lack everything but tact and conviction and still be a forcible speaker; but without these nothing will avail... Fluency, grace, logical order, and the like, are merely the decorative surface of oratory."
"There is no way to penetrate the surface of life but by attacking it earnestly at a particular point."
"As social beings we live with our eyes upon our reflection, but have no assurance of the tranquillity of the waters in which we see it."
"If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted."
"We are ashamed to seem evasive in the presence of a straightforward man, cowardly in the presence of a brave one, gross in the eyes of a refined one, and so on. We always imagine, and in imagining share, the judgments of the other mind."
"We have no higher life that is really apart from other people. It is by imagining them that our personality is built up; to be without the power of imagining them is to be a low-grade idiot."
"Prudence and compromise are necessary means, but every man should have an impudent end which he will not compromise."
"Institutions - government, churches, industries, and the like - have properly no other function than to contribute to human freedom; and in so far as they fail, on the whole, to perform this function, they are wrong and need reconstruction."
"The literature of the inner life is very largely a record of struggle with the inordinate passions of the social self."
"A talent somewhat above mediocrity, shrewd and not too sensitive, is more likely to rise in the world than genius."