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Chris Matakas

"My growth as a human being has been directly proportional to my growth as a marital artist."

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"My growth as a human being has been directly proportional to my growth as a marital artist."

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Chris Matakas
"The most obvious, most absurdly recognizable phenomena in day-to-day life often become the hardest to remain consciously aware of."

Mindfulness

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Chris Matakas
"Our social contract is becoming an exchange of free thought for mindless stimuli."

Society

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Chris Matakas
"The quality of your life is directly proportional to the positive effect you have on others' lives."

Life

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Chris Matakas
"For the sincere student, it mustn't be enough to simply understand Jiu Jitsu. We must seek to understand ourselves."

Self-Growth

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Chris Matakas
"I do not begin to think that I could possibly understand its inner-workings and the deepest truths of the cosmos with the 28 years that I have lived in Central New Jersey of the United States of America."

Knowledge

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Chris Matakas
"Deep down I believe each of us is a well-spring of understanding and wisdom, but we simply never allow the space or time for this understanding to rise to the level of conscious thought."

Wisdom

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Chris Matakas
"To know our values is to have a foundation on which to build a great life. Our environment and education will play a large part in influencing our formulation of this world view, but is ultimately ourselves that have the final say. We must decide what we value, and then live accordingly. After all, in the eyes of the world we could achieve great success, but if our actions do not coincide with what we ourselves truly deem worthy, we will find no peace."

Philosophy

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Chris Matakas
"Thoreau and Huxley calmly state what I have spent years trying to articulate, and never found the words for doing so. To read the words of these great men is to read the highest expression of my very self which is inexpressible due to the shortcomings of my particular nature."

Creativity

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Chris Matakas
"Jiu Jitsu provides a place of fellowship that, unfortunately, our society has largely failed to create."

Community

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Chris Matakas
"Imagine a true master of the art, someone with complete skill in every aspect of Jiu Jitsu. This master would not force anything. He would simply allow the roll to take whatever form it does, and in every position would act in the most efficient way based off what the circumstance dictates, and not what he himself prefers."

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Aberjhani

"A kind stranger is better than an uncaring friend."

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Personal Development

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Aberjhani

"The more you are able to forgive then the more you are able to love."

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Personal Development

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Aberjhani

"If you take a stand [for God] and mean it, you may suffer persecution. Some of your friends will drift away. They don't want to be with people like you. You speak to their conscience. They feel uncomfortable in your presence because you live for God."

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Aberjhani

"Trying to engage with an unapproachable person can lead to embarrassment, alienation, and resistance. Why would we set ourselves up for that kind of pain and failure? It's no wonder that people may avoid them-the risk of rejection is too great."

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Aberjhani

"When choosing your relationships, be guided by your life's purpose, your vision and your dreams."

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Aberjhani

"Love is such a tremendous force of feeling! When you can't stop loving, you simply cannot stop it."

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Aberjhani

"For few matters you need to be solo, for some matters you need soul mate and for many matters you need society."

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Aberjhani

"Our relationship must be right with God before it can be right with man."

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Aberjhani

"Was Deirdre right about me purposely wanting relationships that were impossible?"

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Aberjhani

"Confession is not betrayal. What you say or do doesn't matter only feelings matter. If they could make me stop loving you-that would be the real betrayal."

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