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"Friendships in childhood are usually a matter of chance, whereas in adolescence they are most often a matter of choice."
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"Adolescence is like having only enough light to see the step directly in front of you."

"It must be wonderful to be seventeen, and to know everything."

"So I hear we get to go to town this weekend. Want to catch a movie or something?--ZP.S. That is, if Jimmy doesn't mind.Translation: This weekend might be a good chance for us to see each other outside our school in a social environment, free of competetiton. I do not view other boys as threats, and I enjoy making them seem insignificant by calling them the wrong names. (Translation by Macey McHenry)"

"One had to be careful with elbows and boys."

"The conflict between the need to belong to a group and the need to be seen as unique and individual is the dominant struggle of adolescence."

"It's kind of sad, if you think about it. Like there's no continuity in people at all. Like something ruptures when you hit twelve, or thirteen, or whatever the age is when you're no longer a kid but a "young adult, and after that you're a totally different person. Maybe even a less happy person. Maybe even a worse one."

"Four months in the life of a seventeen-year-old is the stuff of swings and roundabouts, ... Never again in your life do you possess the capacity for such total personality overhaul."

"At seventeen, the smallest crises took on tremendous proportions; someone else's thoughts could take root in the loam of your own mind; having someone accept you became as vital as oxygen. Adults, light years away from this, rolled their eyes and smirked "this too shall pass" - as if adolescence was a disease like chicken pox, something that everyone recalled as a mild nuisance, completely forgettingone how painful it had been at the time."

"Adolescence isn't just about prom or wearing sparkly dresses."

"It's easier to floss with barbed wire than admit you like someone in middle school."
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"We now recognize that abuse and neglect may be as frequent in nuclear families as love, protection, and commitment are in nonnuclear families."

"Friendships in childhood are usually a matter of chance, whereas in adolescence they are most often a matter of choice."
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