"I think the main thing, don't you, is to keep the show on the road."

"One can live in the shadow of an idea without grasping it."

"Ireland is a great country to die or be married in."

"If a theme or idea is too near the surface, the novel becomes simply a tract illustrating an idea."

"Never to lie is to have no lock on your door, you are never wholly alone."

"Education is not so important as people think."

"Jealousy is no more than feeling alone against smiling enemies."

"The heart may think it knows better: the senses know that absence blots people out. We really have no absent friends."

"Experience isn't interesting until it begins to repeat itself. In fact, till it does that, it hardly is experience."

"The importance to the writer of first writing must be out of all proportion of the actual value of what is written."

"If you look at life one way, there is always cause for alarm."

"That is partly why women marry - to keep up the fiction of being in the hub of things."

"Mechanical difficulties with language are the outcome of internal difficulties with thought."

"Language is a mixture of statement and evocation."

"Art is one thing that can go on mattering once it has stopped hurting."

"All your youth you want to have your greatness taken for granted; when you find it taken for granted, you are unnerved."

"Fantasy is toxic: the private cruelty and the world war both have their start in the heated brain."

"Intimacies between women often go backwards, beginning in revelations and ending in small talk."

"The wish to lead out one's lover must be a tribal feeling; the wish to be seen as loved is part of one's self-respect."

"Meeting people unlike oneself does not enlarge one's outlook; it only confirms one's idea that one is unique."

"Pity the selfishness of lovers: it is brief, a forlorn hope; it is impossible."

"The best that an individual can do is to concentrate on what he or she can do, in the course of a burning effort to do it better."

"Fate is not an eagle, it creeps like a rat."

"No object is mysterious. The mystery is your eye."

"It is not helpful to help a friend by putting coins in his pockets when he has got holes in his pockets."

"Illusions are art, for the feeling person, and it is by art that we live, if we do."

"The innocent are so few that two of them seldom meet - when they do meet, their victims lie strewn all round."

"There is no end to the violations committed by children on children, quietly talking alone."

"When you love someone all your saved up wishes start coming out."

"Nobody speaks the truth when there is something they must have."

"Nobody can be kinder than the narcissist while you react to life in his own terms."

"Nothing can happen nowhere. The locale of the happening always colours the happening, and often, to a degree, shapes it."

"Autumn arrives in early morning, but spring at the close of a winter day."