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"In the pursuit of trying to be all things to all people or trying to live up to another person's expectations, do you find yourself saying 'Yes' when you wish you'd said 'No?' When something is not in your best interest or goes against your values, learn to refuse and graciously reply, "No."
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"The desire to be nice to everyone and please everyone and the inability to firmly say no is what destroys believers most of all."
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"While you will certainly attract more bees with honey, there are times when being nice can backfire. Take it from a naturally kind person, being a "bitch has its time and place. There will be times when you must engage with mean, rude, and inconsiderate people."
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"Being a good person has nothing to do with allowing people to destroy you."
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Personal Development
"Never chase a person, because if they want to be in your life, they will. It amazes me how people go out their way for someone who does nothing for them, doesn't encourage or support their efforts. Stop seeking attention from people who don't give you the time of day. Value your time, comfort your spirit, have peace of mind. There are people who love you and care about you.Give your smiles to them, Reciprocate!"
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"Let today mark a new beginning for you. Give yourself permission to say NO without feeling guilty, mean, or selfish. Anybody who gets upset and/or expects you to say YES all of the time clearly doesn't have your best interest at heart. Always remember: You have a right to say NO without having to explain yourself. Be at peace with your decisions."
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"We violated each other's boundaries with verbal missiles of anger disguised in the pretense of 'just kidding."
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Personal Development
"Boundary violations are deeply experienced."
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Personal Development
"We should not judge people or try to figure out what makes them tick. We should leave them the hell alone."
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"I will feel no guilt on shutting my door to those who didn't listen."
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"True closeness respects each other's space.You can never get any measuring instrument to compare and set on a pedestal how one truly cares for you in any kind of relationship.There is a big difference between closeness and dependency, compassionate, honest, generous, humble heart thanprejudiced, jealous, insecure heart.Each one should respect the growth of a relationship as we all evolve in a world interconnected with many hearts, minds and souls."
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"If you do nothing, you'll have nothing. If you do something spectacular, you will have something spectacular."
Effort
"Begin by asking yourself if you are currently showing up to your life, your business, and your relationships in a way that is cultivating an extraordinary life."
Life
"Authenticity is the litmus test for the honesty, transparency, and trust which are necessary for healthy relationships."
Trustworthiness
"Your personal integrity, defined as being honest and having strong moral principles, communicates whether (or not) you can be trusted."
Character
"Building confidence is an ongoing process and something that can be accomplished over time."
Development
"Are you managing your energy well and using it for things that matter? Do you stop to recharge before you push yourself to critically low levels? Unplug to recharge."
Recovery
"When we are deeply passionate about something, the obstacles or challenges are diminished by sheer will and desire."
Drive
"Dressing appropriately in one venue may be highly inappropriate in another. Yet every day we see a lack of modesty and taste, regardless of how uncomfortable it makes others feel."
Modesty
"Any time you put yourself on the line, you risk (and maybe fear) failing, falling, being embarrassed, or looking stupid-none of which are comfortable."
Risk
"We continuously make promises and create agreements with ourselves and others. Some of these agreements are mutually beneficial. However, when you realize that things you agreed to in the past are no longer helpful, possible, or relevant, renegotiate. Be invested enough in your situations or relationships for renegotiation to take place."
Adaptation
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