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Aspen Matis

"She taught me only how to need to be taken care of. I was here because I needed to learn to take responsibility for making my own decisions - to earn my own trust."

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"She taught me only how to need to be taken care of. I was here because I needed to learn to take responsibility for making my own decisions - to earn my own trust."

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"Success and greatness in life belongs to those who take responsibility."

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"True deliverers identify themselves with the sins of their people, they take the blames upon themselves."

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"Any church that is overly emphasizing the role of miracles is encouraging his members to be indolent."

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"You shouldn't blame others for the conditions you endure, we each have the freedom to follow which path we desire in life."

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"Accept that you can and will do what you must do, to take good care of yourself."

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"Only you are responsible for your life and for your life and making it a happy life."

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"People who are indifferent about the happenings around them are human biomasses."

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"If it is God's business, then it should be your business."

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"Accidents and sicknesses are accepted as deserved retribution by the person who has feelings of guilt."

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"I was able to pitch a tent and carry a backpack twenty-five miles a day through mountains-I'd mastered a thousand amazing physical feats-physically I'd become undeniably confident and capable-but physical weakness had never been the problem that I had. My true problem had been passivity, the lifelong-conditioned submission that became my nature."
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"I wrote through darkness, vividly seeing: my passivity was not a crime; my desire to trust was not a flaw."
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"I'd have to be impolite, an inconvenience, and sometimes awkward. But if I could commit, all that discomfort would add up to zap predatory threads like a Taser gun. I'd stun them. They'd bow to me. I'd let my no echo against the mountains.And better to feel bad for a moment saying no-and stop it-than to get harmed.I would take better care.That small word, no. I'd see its deity."
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"My relationship with my mother trapped me in the identity of a child."
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"A red leaf danced from a branch like a dropping flame, down into the calm blue lake. A gust had broken it free. There was a cold bite in the wind. It was now deep autumn in the mountains."
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"Beneath hot sun, desert roses bloomed. Under cold moon, I still refused to."
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"I was promising myself strength.I had to write it, say it, make the effort and fake it before I actually believed I could do it."
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"Death is not a pretty flower that had almost pricked me. It was not a small annoyance I could simply bypass and quickly disregard. It was really The End."
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"In lovesickness we had found a common language."
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"The wisdom of my body had cultivated vibrantly since those sadness-drunken months after the rape when I'd felt so numbed by the hurt and shame that I didn't move further. No longer. The way I felt about being sexually shamed had changed. Now I was angry that others were trying to shame my sexuality in the first place. I flushed-this time not in shame-but in rage."
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