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"The test of good manners is to be patient with the bad ones."

"Graciously Accepting a Compliment. How many times have you offered someone a sincere compliment only to have it thrown back in your face as if your assessment were wrong? How did you feel? Women are notorious for this social misstep and poor maneuver. Why do they do it? Rejecting a compliment makes the compliment-giver feel as though they should have said nothing."

"Murder is not a suitable topic of conversation for a young lady."

"Using titles such as Mr., Mrs., Miss, Dr., etc. demonstrates respect. In previous generations, it was a social necessity and simply good manners. One would consider you rude and uncultured if you were so presumptuous as to go straight to a "first name basis. First names can imply an intimacy that does not exist and it may offend a new person until they know you better. Be wary of making assumptions."

"But I was also told to hold doors for women and children, to shake hands with a firm grip, to remember people's names, and to always give the customer a little more than expected."

"Only fools imply compliments. The wise man comes right out with it, point-blank. Imply criticism--unless the criticized isn't within earshot."
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"It is better to entertain an idea than to take it home to live with you for the rest of your life."

"One of the most obvious facts about grown-ups, to a child, is that they have forgotten what it is like to be a child."

"I think that one possible definition of our modern culture is that it is one in which nine-tenths of our intellectuals can't read any poetry."

"If we meet an honest and intelligent politician, a dozen, a hundred, we say they aren't like politicians at all, and our category of politicians stays unchanged; we know what politicians are like."

"In the United States, there one feels free... Except from the Americans - but every pearl has its oyster."

"I decided that Europeans and Americans are like men and women: they understand each other worse, and it matters less, than either of them suppose."

"A poet is a man who manages, in a lifetime of standing out in thunderstorms, to be struck by lightning five or six times."
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